The love connection

Well I have a serious post for a change.

My wife and I have been married for 14 years, and many of the friends who were married around the same time we were are having difficulties, some are already divorced. I think sometimes people assume marriage is like a train ride, just get onboard and the rest is up to the Engineer.

Well I’ll tell ya, it’s more like being a pit crew, your marriage is the car in the race, and you are the ones who keep it running smooth. When you notice something is wrong, YOU need to fix it, if you need the help of your fellow crew member to fix it, then speak up!

It’s simple, talk to each other, and for goodness sake enjoy the quiet moments together. There is nothing in life I like better than snuggling up with my wife at night or first thing in the morning, flesh on flesh, and just relaxing. Take time like this to enjoy each other’s company, it sounds simple, because IT IS! I’m not talking about sex either, sex is great don’t get me wrong, but there is more to it than that.

The day you were married, you two became one, so keep in touch with the “other half” of you.